The role of parenting has always been linked to women. Men, until recently we have not participated in the upbringing and education of children nor have we been educated for it, so we have not learned or had references to raise our children consciously. Most of us have been taught an image of being a more distant and cold parent.
But that is not what we want, we want to get involved in a significant and different way in parenthood, discover emotions such as vulnerability or fear and know how to manage it. Like me, surely many of you feel lost, we have many things to learn in this regard, we are the generation of change and therefore I am going to tell you what I have learned in recent years with my son:
- you better pass weather of quality with family to an amount but looking at the mobile. The current precariousness and the accelerated rhythm of life that we lead make it increasingly more difficult to have weather free Y reconcile the life work with the familiarI know it's hard but try to get through each day even if it's media hour with your son daughter sin none type of distraction, time in which you can see him/her, speak with him/her, meet him/herwith nothing else on my mind to enjoy of that moment.
- In relation to time, it is also recommended market weather when are they little ones. In fact, a number of studies claim that fathers what pass weather with his kids newly born, acquire mayor commitment parental in the future.
- Create one bond affective positive. Taking care of the relationship is essential for children to express themselves and show their feelings, in addition to helping them improve their self-esteem.
- Se conscious of you influence. If your son/daughter is young, they will surely see you as if you were the most incredible person in the world, their idol and role model, so it is important that you are aware of this responsibility and act according to the principles and attitudes that you want them to see. your son/daughter learn, the children internalize those behaviors and the will repeat. And above all, any criticism O derision that comes out of your mouth both towards him/her or towards your environment will sink until the bottom. It's hard, but the better gift what can we do but is the freedom of to be those who want, no them let's go our prejudices, is fears, is ideas limitations.
- Accompany him/her. Many times we try to capture our desires and passions in them. We have to understand that our sons have are life and that they have to live it, so our duty as parents is accompany them Y support them in their decisions and your projects.
- To be conscious about what that life switch to. The life you knew until now, including your privileges, will totally change. Your scale of priorities will take a 180º turn and your family will occupy a large part of your time. Instead of being scared, we should enjoy this new life.
- Many friends, myself included, have found that after to be fathers, we have turned top sons. being a father is a teaching constant, and these lessons Continuous reading can help you understand your parents and how they raised you.
Although there are many more tips to be a better parent, or at least try, few tips will be more useful than the one from communicate with your son Y listen it what they have to tell. To have in bill their decisions, as well as to understand What reasons and how develop are personality it is important to create and bond stronger. To do this, we must also understand that the world that our children live and will live in is completely different from the world that we have lived.